1. Mutual Tolerance: With every year that passes away, you might find out that some traits of the character or the behavior of your lover, that were once attractive and interesting to you, have now become a source of conflicts. Acceptance of the differences between you and your significant other is not always easy, but it is absolutely necessary in order to live together long and happily.
2. Common Values: It is not possible and not necessary, to live with your own reflection. But living with your polar opposite is a risk that could become a permanent conflict. So you will need to find agreement about some basic values.
3. Friendly Intimacy: What will happen if your partner becomes your best friend? Intimacy and trust between you and your lover are necessary in order to be able to create a truly satisfying relationship.
4. Talk to each other: The lack of communication is not helpful and not healthy for any human being. We are given a mouth and a tongue with the ability to speak a language exactly for this reason. Share how you feel, what you need, what you don't like by using an actual speech. But keep in mind that too much talking isn't helpful either. Be specific and clear when you weant to discuss something with your partner, so you won't end up misunderstood and suppressed.
5. Harmony in Sex: Sex is not only a way to get and to give pleasure but also an opportunity to exposeyourself and to become closer to each other. The main problem for both of you is to make sure that your sexual relations will not lose their sharpness and freshness over time.
6. Common Plans and Dreams: In order to move forward, the couple must be able to see their future together. And it can always be an inspiration for partners, if the dreams and desires of each of themhave found a common point of view.
7. The Round Table: Do not ever compete with your lover no matter what. If you are the man in the relationship, be strong and supportive, but don't overestimate yourself, you don't look attractive to your girl and she even might think that she isn't good enough for you, which will lead to a pile of problems later... And if you are the woman in the relationship, don't forget to be CONFIDENT. If your man have chosen you, that means he wants to be with YOU, not anybody else. Do not underestimate his feelings - he may look strong like a rock, but he also has the same stressful day at work like you do.
8 Freedom: Don't get obsessed with your lover. Remember, that you are NOT his whole life, just a beautiful part of it, so if you want things to stay that way, just work on yourself. Self-perfection is more important than trying to change someone's lifestye. If you truly love someone don't take away from them their freedom of choice, freedom of speech and behavior. Just be happy the way they are, because when you met them and you fell in love with them they were just right - not too, not too hot.
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